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Mourning jewelry

By David Pescovitz at 10:22 am Wed, Feb 24, 2010

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Popular in the 19th century, mourning jewelry was fashionable to wear after the loss of a loved one. Sometimes, the pieces were made of jet and featured angels, skulls, or other symbols of mourning. The pieces might also incorporate a tiny portrait or lock of the dead person's hair. (See the Victorian hairwork bracelet above.) One of the world's foremost collectors of mourning jewelry is Hayden Peters, whose Art of Mourning site is an incredible resource for "memorial, mourning, sentimental jewellery, and art." The excellent Collectors Weekly recently interviewed Peters about the history of these intriguing artifacts. From The Collectors Weekly:
 Images Items Rings Charlesfront Collectors Weekly: What are the differences between mourning, memorial, and sentimental jewelry?

Peters: Memorial pieces were made for public events related to a death. Mourning jewelry was usually a little more personal. While several pieces might be made for someone's death, it was still for the family or people close to the deceased.

A skull and a watch both represent the passage of time. This example in verge silver is from around 1780. The early precursors to mourning jewelry displayed the skull and crossbones and all those memento mori, remember-you-will-die motifs. Shakespeare commissioned mourning rings. But the mourning rings from the 1500s and 1600s the skull and crossbones and those motifs as a statement of living. It meant 'yes, you would be judged at the end, so live your life correctly'. A skull and crossbones was not always about death.

I think that's one reason why sentimental jewelry is the most misunderstood of all jewelry, especially when mourning comes into it. A lot of people think it's morbid and maybe grisly, but it's not. Honoring someone's life with a piece of mourning jewelry is one of the most beautiful things you can do for somebody. I can't stand the negative connotations. And sometimes it's hard to differentiate whether a piece is for mourning the death of a loved one or just a token of affection.

"An Interview with Antique Mourning Jewelry Collector Hayden Peters"
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10 Responses to “Mourning jewelry”

  1. Brainspore says:
    February 24, 2010 at 10:27 am

    Nowadays people who want to wear black clothing and skull-adorned jewelry can just go to Hot Topic.

  2. Anonymous says:
    February 24, 2010 at 10:44 am

    “A lot of people think it’s morbid and maybe grizzly, but it’s not.”

    When did bears start wearing jewelry? (Tip: spell-check is not the same as knowing the right word.)

  3. Anonymous says:
    February 24, 2010 at 2:28 pm

    Hi Anon:
    This has been fixed, thanks!
    Collectors Weekly

  4. LightningRose says:
    February 25, 2010 at 6:43 am

    And today you can have your loved one’s remains made into a diamond.

    http://www.lifegem.com/

    If this hasn’t been the topic of a Boing-Boing post, it should be!

  5. Anonymous says:
    February 25, 2010 at 6:34 pm

    A very interesting website full fo resources. Great read and insight into history.

  6. Anonymous says:
    February 25, 2010 at 6:35 pm

    That’s really quite interesting. These days we barely talk about death, it’s interesting to see how much it was a part of peoples lives back then, and how they celebrated the lives of loved ones after they’d passed on.

  7. Anonymous says:
    February 25, 2010 at 6:38 pm

    I think mourning jewelry is a beautiful thing. Why not have somebody you love close to you at all times.

  8. Anonymous says:
    February 25, 2010 at 6:58 pm

    A damn good article. Quite an interesting read. Jewelry actually meant something back then, and it shows.

  9. Anonymous says:
    February 27, 2010 at 2:58 am

    Lots of people collect different things and more often than not we (outsiders) tend to think they are just hoarders or have nothing better to do with their money and time.

    But after reading this article, I am truly converted in how i view collectors. Its interesting to see how much sentimental value each piece has and the history behind them. Jewelery back then had so much more meaning than now where people purchase it just to show off their wealth. Bring back the old days I say!

  10. fiona davies says:
    April 13, 2010 at 2:22 am

    Another really modern popular type of memorial jewellery is keeping the ashes in a charm or pendant.
    You can see this at:
    http://urnjewelelry.co.uk

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